It is important for two people to have common understandings on the big and small issues in a relationship. A female netizen shared her experience on Dcard, saying that at a family dinner with her boyfriend, she was not only asked by her mother to g...
It is important for two people to have common understandings on the big and small issues in a relationship. A female netizen shared her experience on Dcard, saying that at a family dinner with her boyfriend, she was not only asked by her mother to go to the kitchen or wash dishes, but her boyfriend did not consider the premise of "not having children", but also asked her to do her best to do her job, which caused a heated discussion.
The couple met the parent. He was asked by his boyfriend to cook the meals.The original PO said that he had been dating his boyfriend for several years. Before the date, he talked about not having children or living with his parents-in-law. A few days ago, his boyfriend invited the original PO to have a meal with his family, and went to the invitation with the idea of "knowing the parent has nothing to lose." Unexpectedly, on that day, her boyfriend's mother suddenly asked the original PO to buy ingredients and cook together, which made her very dissatisfied. She thought to herself, "Please ask the guests to have a meal and ask them to cook." However, because she was good at cooking, her boyfriend's father and mother also praised her handicrafts at the table, and the atmosphere was quite good.
{9 The original PO had not opened his mouth yet, and her boyfriend immediately threw it and said, "The original PO doesn't want to have a child", which made her very surprised and said, "This is obviously our common sense." She was forced to hear a lot of comments about maintaining old age. Then after eating, her boyfriend's mother asked her original post to wash the dishes together. She was already very upset and asked her boyfriend to go with her.However, her boyfriend's mother said, "He can't wash dishes, we'll be fine. I can teach you a few more dishes." The original PO also replied, "I really can't stand your way of hospitality." Later, her unhappy boyfriend later broke the PO, "Just try to make the future wife's obligation. You are really badly abusive abroad." She completely yelled, "I haven't married yet, and it doesn't mean I want to marry in the future." She left with her bag.
Want a man and a woman to have equal rights, but also want the woman to follow the tradition?Later, the original PO boyfriend hurriedly caught up and apologized, but he still felt that she was wrong and unpretentious, and even told his father and mother that "this is the case in Taiwan", which made the original PO's heart come back and forth, "It's okay to go to the kitchen and wash dishes to take care of parents-in-law. Xiaopin 120,000 yuan, he didn't marry a makeup or sell you. I wrote my name in a room in the north", "Don't say that you are doing food, washing dishes and taking care of your father and mother, I didn't even see you looking for a mistress."
At the end of the original PO article, she thought that this traditional boy could not accept the AA system and would pay money. As a result, her boyfriend not only AA, but also lived in the original PO house, which made her shout, "It would be good if he didn't ask him to win, but he also asked me to be a good wife." In response to this, netizens also left messages to support, "Is this man's fundamental mother a baby? Fortunately, you have escaped, otherwise you will be a cow and a horse in the future, and the other party will think that this is what a girl should do," "Your sentence is really amazing next time! Don't talk about the appearance! Is respect the person who respects us? Isn't even a single word of the horoscope and the wife responsible for her" and "It's so funny, some Asian men don't have the ability to want equal rights for men and women, and they want the woman to follow the tradition, and the buffet is especially delicious."