Do you often go back to your parents’ home to have sex! 3. Police messages allow you to smell your in-laws’ nature before marriage

A few days ago, someone shared the story of her returning to her parents' home and being examined by her mother-in-law's family in the page, which led to the sharing of many daughters-in-law and mothers. One day, her parents-in-law asked her if she often went back to her parents' home to have sex? Like what? She replied that she was going back to accompany her father and mother, but her parents-in-law began to feel hysterical about her.

"You know that you are already from this family, not from your parents' family! Don't run back in two days!" The parents-in-law not only restricted their daughter-in-law from returning to their parents' family, but also moved out the "Sister-in-law and filial piety discussion" and asked their daughter-in-law to be filial to them without any conditions. Even when her husband stood beside her, her mother-in-law extorted and shouted: "If you want to stand beside your wife, I wouldn't have you this son!"

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Such old-fashioned behavior seems to be out of place, but such examples are actually everywhere in real life. The post caused aroused heated comments as soon as it was posted. In addition to reminding my husband of the importance of this time, many messages below also made a fuss. "This is what happened in the 1960s, right?" "If my husband supports you, move out quickly!"

How to detect the nature of his parents-in-law before marriage?

The problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a difficult problem since ancient times, and differences in life habits and values ​​are likely to cause conflicts. In fact, many people have met such "invisible parents-in-law". They are in a warm and warm manner during their boyfriend and girlfriend, but when their son and daughter-in-law get married, the domineering nature hidden in their hearts is revealed and they directly turn their faces and don't recognize others. This also makes many women troubled. Is there any way to see the true personality of their parents-in-law before marriage?

1. Boyfriend's life habits

There are more and more boys who are commonly known as "mothers" in modern society. Because of their excessive love, these people have insufficient life skills. After getting married, the mother-in-law is likely to keep interfering in the affairs of the couple because of her love for her son, and even act disrespectful and private.

For mother-in-law, these may just be the way of showing their love, but for daughter-in-law, they are very dreams. If you want to know whether your mother-in-law will interfere excessively in the future, you must observe your boyfriend's life habits and how to deal with things. If he relies on everything, it is very likely that he will be a sign of his bad habits since childhood.

2. The way of interacting with your boyfriend

If you find that your parents-in-law are very strong and do not listen to other people's suggestions at all, then after marriage in the future, it is very likely that when there is friction, it will take a lot of effort to communicate, and it may even be impossible to communicate and evolve into a serious conflict.

3. It is better to talk at the beginning when you confess your value view with your parents-in-law. For example: Should I live together after marriage? Should I pay filial piety? If you want to have a baby, please ask the nanny or take it with you? So what about educational concepts?

If you find that your parents-in-law are of type that doesn't listen to others, hold your own ideas without taking other people's opinions, or yelling irrationally, then you can think carefully about whether to get married.

The attitude of a man is very important

Below the post, someone shared the comments of a 35-year-old male netizen she had read. The man insisted that women put their husband's family as a priority is a traditional virtue, and women who cannot do it should not get married. If they get married, women who still talk to their husband's family are the hands of harming the man, which shows that the deep-rooted male doctrine in traditional society has emerged.

In fact, husband is the most important role when something goes wrong between his parents and his wife. In Taiwan society, because they live with their parents-in-law and in-laws, they live in the same house every day, which makes it difficult to cause friction. In traditional concepts, women "marry in", so if the husband doesn't say anything to his wife, then the wife will be isolated and helpless.

In many cases, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a mean attitude towards their daughter-in-law because they don’t regard their baby son as being “taken away”. If the husband can stand in the middle of the role of a sliding slider to communicate, the mother-in-law will be more aware of it, and there will be fewer conflicts between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.