If one day I disappear, will you think of me? ○○: "If a person is always concerned about his condition, he will respond immediately, but he can hardly read it back later, what will you do?" I said, "Of course I will worry about what t...
If one day I disappear, will you think of me?
○○: "If a person is always concerned about his condition, he will respond immediately, but he can hardly read it back later, what will you do?"
I said, "Of course I will worry about what the other party is doing. Once I find out that the other party is deliberately moving far away, I will also let myself learn to keep a distance."
Once, I met a girl with rich literary talent during the party. I accidentally visited the editorial shop on a trip when I went abroad. I remembered that the girl's interest was editorial. Every time she could tell the characteristics of hairlines around the world, and I felt that many raw materials of wires were very difficult to obtain. I wanted to do it well, so I had a thought and bought a few hairline balls and took them home to her for a souvenir.
The girl always thanks me for receiving gifts, asking me not to pay such a loss in the future. I can feel that she has secrets in her heart several times. Sometimes when I contact her, I can't read them anymore. Occasionally, I think, "Have you done something wrong?" It seems that there is no such thing. Does the girl once complain that she doesn't like the gifts I gave me? Or what happened?
Later I realized that "continuous points" is much more difficult than I think. It is more difficult to understand based on the "interest" structure, not because of who has changed or who has wrong. When you live to a certain age, people will automatically reach the fork in the road. Facing their next life topics, some people choose to cross, some people stay where they do not leave, some people go back, and some people go off the road, and those who choose the same road can continue to support each other.
It doesn't matter who disappears, what's important is that you choose not to turn around who
can no longer read it, she is not a question.
To a certain extent, we are just not on the same road.
Remember one day in 2021, my face and I G were on the plane in the early morning. A very familiar action suddenly jumped into the screen. Is it because the Internet was damaged? So turn off the network and connect again; turn off the power again and turn on again. After trying again and again, I still stayed in the screen on the machine. My eyebrows were tight, thinking that maybe one day it wasn't me who disappeared, but the whole world was shutting down, and they might never see each other again.
This is a preview. No one is particularly important, including the most important one.
No one has to accompany who to the end, once the link is broken, he does not care about each other in private, and he will eventually fall apart naturally. Even if he meets again, he will be like a stranger. Even if he gets together again, he doesn't know what he should say.
After growing up, you may move out, get married, get married, or travel. Different life encounters will make each other meet, and different life choices will make each other move far away. One day, you will turn around and return to the original point.
Who disappears, it's just a process. The important thing is whether you want to keep him in your memory or not.
I have asked me if I want to live abroad for a while? I said, no, Taiwan has my family. Later, I added: "If they leave, I will not turn around, or maybe I will." It doesn't matter who disappears, what matters is that you choose not to turn around.
※This article is published at the time of publication "Aspiring to Make Life Like a Like"
